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24 Dec |
Christmas is about Vulnerability |
Christmas is about vulnerability.
A miraculous yet scandalous birth.
A child’s crib only fit for animals.
A young family forced to become refugees.
Innocence massacred by despotic power.
God daring to come into the world in a new-born baby.
No matter how we understand the complexity of the mystery of the Incarnation, Christmas asserts that the very character of God is revealed in a naked, dependant, gurgling, grubby, smelly, vulnerable baby. In Jesus, God became vulnerable so that we would have the courage to be vulnerable and have compassion for the vulnerable among us. This is the timeless message of Christmas.
But for most of us, the idea of vulnerability is scary. We’ve been taught the opposite. You know the messages: don’t let them see your vulnerable side because you might get hurt. Don’t make yourself vulnerable because you might appear weak. Unfortunately, we learn it from our parents, our teachers, our playmates, and our colleagues. You name it – the message is clear. Being vulnerable is a risk.
For that reason, I believe we all struggle with being vulnerable, even here, today. It takes courage. The word “courage” comes from the Latin word ‘cor’, meaning, “heart.” To “encourage” means to put heart into someone. In Middle English, courage meant to speak the truth of one’s mind or one’s heart.
According to author and research professor Brené Brown, courage is, “all about putting our vulnerability on the line.”
Based on years of narrative research, Brown has concluded that,
“We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known.”
Christmas is a risky business.
Dare we make ourselves be deeply seen and known?
In a World still filled with misplaced desires and aspirations,
distracting ‘White Noise’ and anxiety for the future;
it is a risk to be deeply seen and known.
But in Jesus, God appeared on earth as the most vulnerable creature imaginable so that we would take him into our hearts and be equally courageous and vulnerable, and then courageously care for the vulnerable among us, those with whom God is pleased to dwell. That is the Good News of Christmas and that is my prayer this Christmas Day. It is summed up in the word, “Emmanuel” which comes from two Hebrew words, `immanu – “with us,” and ‘el – “God”. A singular word that encapsulates the risk of God for us.
It is Christmas.
May we look carefully and see the face of God in those around us,
may we listen closely and hear the voice of God between us,
may we make ourselves vulnerable and feel the love of God
enter our risk-taking hearts this Christmas,
rekindling the compassion and courage to speak out
and care for the vulnerable ones,
with whom God is still pleased to dwell.
Just as God’s Son was pleased to dwell among us,
in a manger long ago. Vulnerably.
For that is what ‘Immanu – ‘el looks like.
It still does, for those prepared to take the risk and receive the gift.
Rev Derek Chandler
Published Date: 24th December 2022
Category: News
Tags: christmas, emmanuel, incarnation, risk, sermon, theology, vulnerability
13 Sep |
Remembering the Late Sovereign Lady Queen Elizabeth |
At the College of St Barnabas we mourn with the nation and the Commonwealth at the sad news of the death of our late Sovereign Lady Queen Elizabeth. We felt it appropriate to share with you the message from the Rt Rev Christopher Chessun, Bishop of Southwark, Episcopal Visitor to the College:
“It is with great sadness that we have received the news of the death of Her Majesty The Queen who has been there for us all for longer than most of us have lived. Our beloved Queen will be remembered for her devotion to her peoples, to this nation and to the Commonwealth of Nations and there will be opportunities in the coming days and weeks for us all to express our heartfelt thanks for her life and example. Her Christian faith and witness has been an inspiration to us all. May she rest in Peace. We pray for His Majesty The King on his accession to the throne. Thanks be to God. God save the King.”
Merciful Father and Lord of all life, we praise you that we are made in your image and reflect your truth and light. We thank you for the life of our late Sovereign Lady Queen Elizabeth, for the love she received from you and showed among us. Above all, we rejoice at your gracious promise to all your servants, living and departed, that we shall rise again at the coming of Christ. And we ask that in due time we may share with your servant Elizabeth that clearer vision promised to us in the same Christ our Lord; who is alive and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, world without end. Amen.

Published Date: 13th September 2022
Category: News
05 Sep |
Heritage Open Day – Saturday 17 September, 10.30 to 16.30, free admission … |
Please join us! There will be tours of the College, talks, including one by Tim Baker from the Bluebell Railway, stalls – local honey, plants etc., the RH7 Group, refreshments, and more. We have a harpist to play for us, the Friends of the College with a raffle, and last but not least, a mini steam engine for all to enjoy!
We look forward to seeing you.
Published Date: 5th September 2022
Category: News
10 May |
Visitors to our Care Wing |
If visiting someone in the Care Wing, please notify the College in advance, either by email to carewing@collegeofstbarnabas.com or by phone – 07935 048504. A negative lateral flow test must be produced by all visitors. Thank you.
Published Date: 10th May 2022
Category: News
25 Dec |
Christmas Day Joy |
One of our residents, Liz, was particularly filled with Christmas joy for our Christmas Day communion service as her son, Rt Rev Jonathan Clark, Bishop of Croydon, presided today and her daughter, Rev Dr Ellen Clark-King, Dean of King’s College, London, was our guest preacher. Following the service Bishop Jonathan then proceeded to give Christmas Day communion to our care wing residents, including Fr Keith celebrating his 99th birthday on Christmas Day.
Published Date: 25th December 2021
Category: News
19 Dec |
Christmas Party with Friends and Fun! |
A big thank you to the Friends and a special furry friend with a bright red nose for making our resident’s Christmas party so much fun for this year! As well as Rudolph, the Friends provided some wonderful presents to the residents accompanied by a Christmas Quiz, Christmas Carols with our guest pianist, and the whole occasion was topped off by wonderful refreshments and hospitality provided by the college staff. We truly do wish you a Merry and most blessed Christmas!
16 Dec |
Jubilación: Advent Quiet Day 2021 |
As the chaplain, I decided that for this year for our Advent Quiet Day at the College of St Barnabas we would focus on two pairs of biblical elders. One from the Old Testament in the book of Genesis – Abraham and Sarah. And one from the New Testament in St Luke’s Gospel – Simeon and Anna. The faith and witness of both pairs were explored and at the end of each reading and reflection a single question was posed for the residents to consider in relation to themselves and the college community. We finished our Quiet Day together by sharing our reflections and agreeing to revisit them as we seek to continue to explore and deepen our fellowship together in 2022. Below I have shared for your personal contemplation the reflections used for our Advent Quiet Day. Enjoy!
Derek
Countless sermons extol the virtues of the elderly couple, Abraham and Sarah. The duo who left the comfy confines of their homeland to a land they didn’t even know existed. Scripture, however, shines the spotlight on God as the hero in this story of saving grace. The saga of Abraham and Sarah rises out of the hopelessness of their own barrenness. Abraham is recorded as 75 years old when we begin his journey of faith. With no children, he and Sarah left for Canaan with no real indication of future possibilities. Except they had God’s promise. Unimaginable, unspeakable blessing would be theirs because of God. But they had to trust and obey. This required leaving familiarity for a land and life to be named later. It meant admitting their emptiness and finding their fullness in God alone. This isn’t any different than God’s call to each of us.
Jesus framed discipleship in the starkest terms: “Any of you who does not give up everything, cannot be my disciple.” (Luke 14:33) Can Jesus be serious? Let go of everything? Is there a money-back guarantee? Questions like these cloud the reality of a God whose presence eclipses even the most awful emptiness. This is Abraham and Sarah’s story: desolation overcome by God’s abundant provision. Abraham and Sarah weren’t profoundly heroic and neither are we. We’re just ordinary people following God’s direction, trusting His provision and surrendering to Him. This means admitting our emptiness and finding our fullness in God alone. But where might we begin? What shall we travel with?
Jubilación
Perhaps we can begin with a word. By most standards we would describe Abraham and Sarah’s physical and spiritual journey starting when they were both retired. Retirement is a word that the English language appropriated from the French, around the 16th century. It was originally used in a military sense; i.e. “to withdraw to a place of safety or seclusion” (from the French ‘re’ (back) and ‘tirer’ (to draw)). The word ‘pension’ also came into usage around the 16th century, again in the military sense, meaning “a regular sum paid to maintain allegiance” (from the Latin ‘pendere’ To pay). So, the two words most often used today to describe stopping work (retirement and pensioner – both originally military terms) have negative connotations, implying a tax or burden on society, of people who are of less use, or who don’t contribute.
This is not the case in all cultures and societies. One notable exception is Spanish speaking countries, where they use the word ‘jubilación’ – which is perhaps what we should all be encouraged to strive for in retirement – jubilation! Jubilación is both a Latin and, as you will probably know, a Biblical word – Jubilee – which focuses on:
Jubilación is a much richer and more finely nuanced word than retirement. It encapsulates the situation of Abraham and Sarah without denying any of the challenges they were to face. It helps me to glimpse how desolation, may be overcome by God’s abundant provision. It gives me courage to admit my emptiness, in order to find fullness in God.
Question: What might Jubilación look like here and now at the College of St Barnabas?
When Advent, the Twelve days of Christmas, and Epiphany have all passed, I turn to the story of Simeon and Anna to hold on to the mystery and joy of Jesus’ birth. This story of Simeon and Anna tells of two faithful servants who recognised salvation in a tiny baby. The story starts with Joseph and Mary following Israelite law and observing the expected post-birth rituals. They circumcise their son when he is eight days old. Then, after Mary’s purification, they arrive at the temple in Jerusalem to make a sacrifice and cleanse Mary. While at the temple, they also pay the redemption price for Jesus, as Jewish law states that all firstborn sons must be redeemed at the temple when they are a month old. This was a reminder of God’s saving work, rescuing the Israelites from the Egyptians and passing over the Israelite homes during the final plague in the Exodus story.
All of this obedience to law and tradition sets the scene for the arrival of Simeon, a righteous and devout man, filled with the Holy Spirit, who was awaiting the consolation of Israel and had been promised he would see the Lord’s Messiah before he died. It’s particularly significant that Simeon was filled with the Holy Spirit. Before Pentecost, God’s Holy Spirit was usually reserved for specific individuals to equip them for particular tasks. The Holy Spirit was there to equip Simeon for his task: recognising and proclaiming the arrival of the Messiah. The text makes this clear, stating, “It had been revealed to [Simeon] by the Holy Spirit that he would not die before he had seen the Lord’s Messiah. Moved by the Spirit, he went into the temple courts.”
When Jesus is just a tiny baby, Simeon points to the hope that this child will be for both Jews and Gentiles. He reveals that Jesus has come to save the world. Joseph and Mary marvel at this, and Simeon gives Mary an additional blessing, and then, just as they must think the big moment is over, Anna appears. Anna was a prophetess who remained at the temple day and night. This female prophet confirms all that Simeon has just proclaimed. This tiny baby, Jesus, is the Saviour. She gives thanks to God and proclaims the identity of the child to all those waiting for redemption.
In this way, Anna and Simeon speak to us today, just as they spoke to those in the temple years ago. We, like them, are waiting for redemption. The Christmas festivities will come and go, but this hope of Christmas is what we carry with us. Simeon and Anna may have been a great age, but we can still sense the jubilation in their voices. They do not see themselves as isolated individuals, but as part of something bigger than themselves. Thanks to the work of the Holy Spirit, they had revealed to them a very deep love, and perhaps a greater understanding of what it means to love deeply. It is world changing. It reminds me of some words from a founding father of the United States of America, Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790):
“Those who love deeply never grow old. They may die of old age, but they die young.”
Benjamin Franklin initially owned slaves, but became an abolitionist. After 1758 Franklin gradually changed his mind when his friend Samuel Johnson brought him to one of Dr. Bray’s schools for black children. Dr. Bray Associates was a philanthropic association affiliated to the Church of England. In 1759 he joined the association by donating money. In 1759 he met Anthony Benezet who started a school in Philadelphia and who later co-founded the Abolition Society. In 1763 Franklin wrote that African shortcomings and ignorance were not inherently natural, but come from lack of education, slavery and negative environments. He also wrote that he saw no difference in learning between African and white children. In 1787 Franklin became the President of the Abolition Society. He knew what it meant to love deeply. He died at the age of 84 but you could say, he died young.
Question: What might loving deeply look like here and now at the College of St Barnabas?
Published Date: 16th December 2021
Category: News
Tags: advent, jubilación
13 Dec |
Who are our Residents Today? |
Our residents are as varied as the Anglican Church they have served in. Experienced clergy, teachers, missionaries, spouses of those who have served the Church in some way; each one a part of God’s rich tapestry that makes up our community life. This is the story of just one of our current residents – Fr. Barry…
Fr. Barry’s journey took him from his parish in multicultural Brixton to inner city Birmingham and then to Africa where he led a monastic life in Zanzibar, Senegal and Ghana, and ultimately via Bosnia to the College of St Barnabas where, he says, he discovered that God left the best wine until last. In his lifetime Barry has experienced the heartache of being abandoned by his father, a black wartime GI, and the intense highs and lows of being an inner city priest, carrying out extensive work with young black people in the Handsworth area of Birmingham and viewing at first hand police harassment, death, drugs, crime, violence and riots, as well as experiencing the intense heartbreak of a lost love and a 7-year rift with the Church because of his sexuality.
In Africa he sunk wells, had a brush with Mugabe’s secret police and lived as a monk, building a hermitage on the Ashanti plain in Ghana, where he lived and explored his longing after God until ill-health forced his return to the UK, via the mountains of Central Bosnia.
Barry came to the College at a time of great personal need. Milked of his pensions during his time in Africa, and diagnosed with myeloma on his return to the UK, he quite literally had nowhere to go. Fortunately the College was able to help, providing Fr. Barry with a secure, safe environment in which to manage his illness and the space to pray in what he describes as a serious religious community.
In fact, it was precisely for those in ministry like Fr. Barry – returning penniless and in poor health after years of missionary work and ministry overseas, with no-one to turn to – that the College was established all those years ago by Canon William Henry Cooper. Time may have moved on, but as Fr. Barry’s plight so clearly illustrates, the need is still there. Indeed, we are as busy as we have ever been, helping some of the frailest and most vulnerable older and elderly people in the community, not just with the basics of care and accommodation, but with fellowship, a sense of being a valued part of a community and with a strong emphasis on engagement, involvement and social welfare.
The demand and need for the services we provide is unrelenting, and that is precisely why we need help, to enable us to care for those who come to us as the provider of last resort. If you feel you can help our residents like Fr. Barry, then please click the link below.
You can donate by clicking on this JustGiving link. Thank you so much, in advance, for your kind and generous support.
Published Date: 13th December 2021
Category: News
Tags: justgiving, residents
12 Dec |
Friends Autumn Fair 2021 |
A big thank you to the Friends of the College of St Barnabas for relaunching their Autumn Fair on 27th November at a new venue, the Lingfield and Dormansland Community Centre. Many locally produced crafts and pictures were on sale, as well as the ever popular home made cakes stall.
The event drew in many local people and raised £1300 in funds for future resident’s activities. Supporting the Friends were College members of staff, volunteers and college residents.
It was a fun and festive day for all ages!
Derek